Updates from Sarah Shiek

Stepping Into My Belonging!

Stepping Into My Belonging!
Today, I step into my Belonging.  The belonging that I have given away and forgotten was my birthright.  I am taking it back, and reinstating it fully into every part of my life.

It means that some people may not recognize me, as I have allowed others to consume my light, and I have shied away from sitting at the tables that I desired to be part of.  It means new boundaries will be coming up and staying up.

Well, actually it means that my old boundaries will be known by others now.  

I already had the boundaries, and frustration set in when others crossed them, but being a “good girl” and a “nice girl” has made me let you think that everything was ok, when in fact it is not.  

It is not ok to be treated “less than” and to be cornered and unable to speak up when it didn’t feel right.  Instead, frustration was simmering inside and eventually the steam needed to release.  

Who saw it released?  Not you, not the ones who were encroaching their will over mine.  Nope, not you.  My good girl didn’t let you see that part of me.  

It was the ones I love most, the ones who barely crossed the boundary.  They only had their little toe over it, but they got to hear that the boundary was crossed, and they were put in their place, knowing that I wouldn’t allow that in my energy.  

I realized that I always belonged.  I have been perfect since I was born.  A beautiful light to shine for the world.  I was a little “Dolly,” as my great grandmother called me.  And my belonging to sit at any table has been with me since the day I came into this world. 

Nothing has changed, except for my belief that that perfection has dimmed.  

My belief now is that I Belong. 
I get to bring my Belonging with me everywhere.
Only I get to say if something feels aligned with my energy or not.

My energy deserves to be in any room.  I might be the bravest one in the room, and show others how to stand, and be present amongst brightly shining stars. 

Have you let someone else be in charge of your belonging, too?  It’s time to step into your Awakening and know you belong.  You’ve got this, and are in good company. 

Women walking together are going to change the world.  Bring your belonging and let’s create magic. 

xo -Sarah

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Going All In as a Young Living Brand Partner

Going All In as a Young Living Brand Partner
I have used Young Living products for over 10 years.  And up until now, I have pretty much just been a customer.  Loving their products, but not delving into the business side of things much.  

I have never really had a team, and so I stayed small within the company.

Well, things are about to change.

I was looking for a network marketing company that I felt aligned with. One that did good in the world, and I loved their products enough to share them with the world.

I also wanted to align myself with a company that was energetically in sync with my soul contract.

So I put out a call to the Universe.  I asked to be shown a clear sign on what was right for me.  What the next step was.

Here’s what I did…I told the Universe that I needed a sign sometime during the week of 1/30/23 and 2/3/23.  

I was specific in how I wanted to receive the sign. I told the Universe my sign could come in the form of a car sticker (I have received signs like that before, so I sometimes look for them), hearing or being part of a conversation about a company/product or receiving something in the mail. 

 I told the Universe that my sign had to be so obvious that I couldn’t not see it. It would basically be right in front of my face.  

Well, I waited all week, and I hadn’t gotten a sign.  No car stickers, conversations or mail.  I was getting kind of frustrated.  I again told the Universe that I was waiting.  

I threw my hands up, and let it go.  I didn’t know what was going to happen. It was Friday afternoon, and still no sign.

Then I saw it.  It was sitting on the counter…a postcard about Young Living.

Prayers answered!!  The Universe sent me a sign…well a postcard.  

I already know and love Young Living, and this was the sign I needed in order to be all in as a Brand Partner.  

I am recommitting to myself and having faith that this is the right move for me.  

I recommit to me!!

xo -Sarah

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It's OK to Reevaluate Your Goals

It's OK to Reevaluate Your Goals
Goals are simple.  We set out to attain a change in our lives, and we get so excited to do it.  To get the change.  

But implementing the goals is harder than it seems.  It is a daily commitment to yourself and to making you a priority. 

Simple does not mean easy, but with commitment  we can make our dreams a reality.  

To start out 2023, I found out that in Human Design the new year is not celebrated until a bit later in January.  This year, Rave New Year was celebrated on January 22.  Rave New Year is considered the New Year in Human Design.  Before that time, we (the collective) went through periods of closing out 2022 and there was resistance in the energy for starting new things.  

Well, resistance or not, I kept with my goals.  The first two weeks were great, I completed nearly every task on my checklist everyday.  That was more than I initially intended to do.  I gave myself room for rest, but I was feeling the momentum so I went for it.

I had four types of goals:
  • Mindset - Do affirmations and meditations
  • Physical - Walk an average of 50 miles a month
  • Spiritual - Journal and spend time in silence to allow my channel to open
  • Lifestyle - Blog and create movement in my business (behind the scenes) 

Then, overwhelm & fatigue set in.  I realized that in order to keep moving I needed to make some changes.  

So I did!!

I didn’t need to change all of my goals, but I reflected on the most challenging, and that was my physical goal.  I was dreading every walk because of the time it took.  And walking on a treadmill in the winter was challenging.  

So I just changed my goal.  Did you know you can do that?  

I give you permission to change your goal if you find you are not aligned with them.  

My new goal for my physical health is to eat at least 1 homemade meal a week.  Since I have been so busy, I really made it attainable, and I have been keeping my lunches really clean.  

I can do that.  And it has made the rest of my goals run just a little bit smoother.

So here is your permission to reevaluate your current goals, and if one of them aren’t aligned, then change it.  

Recommit to you!!

xo -Sarah

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How to Set Goals and Keep Them!

How to Set Goals and Keep Them!
Have you tried to set goals before, only to fail and give up within two weeks?  Most New Year’s resolutions fail before January is done.  

It is time to do things differently this year.  It is time for creating aligned goals.  

When you are starting new goals for the year, make sure that you follow these simple rules.  It will help you to ensure that you can stay on track and really create the changes that you desire to bring into your life.  

**Keep your goals SMART - Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic & Time-bound

When we start to make goals we often have the end in mind, and those goals are BIG (for me at least).  When our goals are too big it can feel insurmountable and overwhelming to do it all.  

This year, I did a few things differently to start my goals out right.

  1. I looked at my year end goals and really felt what it would feel like to have them completed.  How would I feel when I had them all under my belt? I sat in that feeling and felt all of the good things surrounding me. 
  2. I broke my goals up into different categories.  This allowed me to take the things that I value the most and create goals that would make the most sense.  My categories were mind, body, spirit and life.  So I have a mindset goal, a physical goal, a spiritual goal and a lifestyle goal.  
  3. I worked backwards, and broke down my goals into different chunks.  That way I can have some wins right away, and start really seeing results.  

    I took my big goal, and broke it down into a small goal for each category that I can start now, and feel good when I hit each small goal.
  4. I am giving myself grace.  I know that I won’t be able to do everything everyday…life happens.  I am starting out with 2-3 days a week for some of my goals, and knowing that I will build up over time. 

    I want the wins!!
  5. Reevaluate every month.  You can add goals, or take them back if you get overly excited.  It’s ok to recommit and start fresh each month too.

You are amazing and I know that you can rock your goals this year.  Take it slow and recommit if you need to.  

xo -Sarah

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Moon Phase Basics for Sacred Feminine Beings

Moon Phase Basics for Sacred Feminine Beings

The moon is a constant in our lives.  We see it with so much regularity, that sometimes it floats into the background of the night sky.  


Over the next few blogs, we are going to learn about how the moon affects us and how we can best harness the power of the moon.  But first we need to get a clarity on what the phases of the moon are. 


We learn about the moon in science class, and yet we don’t always remember that the moon has so much power over our earthly plane.  The moon is a repeating pattern.  It is a cycle.  


The four parts that are easiest for me to remember are the New Moon (completely dark) and the  Full Moon (it is all lit).  The quarters can be tricky because when someone says the first or third quarter they are speaking in terms of the moon's full cycle.  Then there is the tricky stuff, waxing and waning.  Waxing means to become larger and waning means to get smaller.  


The full cycle goes like this: New Moon (fully dark), Waxing Crescent (¼ of the right lit), First Quarter (right half of the moon lit), Waxing Gibbous (¾ of the right side lit), Full Moon (fully lit), Waning Gibbous (¾ of the left side lit), Third Quarter (left half of the moon lit), Waning Crescent (¼ of the left lit) and back again to the New Moon.  


Oh boy…that was a lot of sciency stuff (hopefully you kept up).  


Now for some fun facts!


A full cycle of the moon is 29 and a half days.  Which is why we typically see a full moon once a month, with some months having two.  That is when we get our Blue Moon.  


There are some differing definitions of a Blue Moon.  Most people think of a blue moon as any calendar month that has two full moons, but that is just one of them.  The other definition is called a seasonal Blue Moon.  A seasonal Blue Moon is when there are four Full Moons in an astronomical season.  If there are four Full Moons between the Summer Solstice and the day before the Autumnal Equinox (the first day of fall) you would have a seasonal Blue Moon.  This can happen in any of the astronomical seasons. 


The seasonal Blue Moon is pretty rare, so I really celebrate by lighting candles and send blessings to the moon.  


See you next time as we talk more about the power of the moon!


xo -Sarah


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Meet Sarah Sik

 

For so long, I was filled with anxiety.  My emotions were all over the place.  


I am a military wife and mom of two boys. 


Always needing to be braced for change filled me with so much stress and overwhelm.  My thoughts and feelings were running wild.  I felt like I was always fighting an uphill battle, and never gaining any traction.  


Then, something magical happened and things started to change.


It was like walking into the most beautiful forest and seeing the sun shining down brightly on my face as I peeked up at the sky. 


Suddenly, I started to take control and things just became clearer.   


Have you ever tried to make a change in your life, only to get a week into it and say, “I’m tired, it can wait until tomorrow.”  Only tomorrow never happens!!  Then you end up feeling guilty and down in the dumps.  


It’s time for you to step up and make some changes so you can live your most exquisite life.


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